I've never called a girl hot, I just think that to be hot, is to be something that is so easy to look at, something that draws your attention, teases you and leaves you wanting more. Something that unleashes a burning desire in you to have them; want them for sexual purposes. It’s a word that seems to be based entirely off of sexual presence and attitude. It makes me wonder, “Why would anyone want to be hot?” To me, all that means is that they are trying to show off, to present themselves in a way that is irresistible to others. Not gaining attention due to personality, (well, they still are, but I’ll explain) but due to looks and all the fantasies that could be created in that person’s head. Not going deep down, but viewing the person as an item, something to have, and be proud of. Nothing I see as anything that should be valued.
Cute, on the other hand, portrays an innocence. Seemingly opposite to hot, it covers appearance and personality. Yeah, it draws you in, but instead of teasing, brings out happiness, makes you want to get to know, be with, and love, and connect with the person. Yes, there can still be sexual desires, but it’s on a more intimate level, cleaner, gentler. Cute girls seem to gain attention through their personality, and through friendships, creating everlasting bonds, not just a one time use item that ups the popularity and status of the guy thats with her, or the friends she has.
I don’t know how much sense that made, but I’ll put it like this. When you call someone hot, it’s very shallow, seems like it’s an opinion based on appearance and desire, disregarding anything beyond that. Whereas cute, although also being based off appearance, seems like an opinion based with the perception of innocence, stature, something soft, that really brings out emotions from your heart.
You call someone hot with your dick, cute with your heart.
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